DEAR ABBY: My wife puts up with me, and I adore her for it. I have my challenges. I was involved in a head-on car crash 15 years ago and have suffered a number of long-term injuries from it. I can do most of what I want physically, but not everything. I have taken medications for residual brain issues from the crash and can become angry without much warning. I have had both family and individual therapy. I exercise, meditate (but not nearly as often as I should), take medications to keep me stable and have reminders in various places about what I should do and not do. I buy my wife flowers pretty regularly and stay playful often. I also take good care of our special-needs son. What other things would you suggest I do to help her know I adore her? -- LUCKY GUY IN FLORIDA DEAR LUCKY GUY: Your wife probably already knows. But if you apologize when you fly off the handle, show affection, and tell her every day how much you love her and how blessed you feel to have her in your life, it will convey the message you want to deliver. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.