Skip to main content Email Or Call (888) 847-9869 download the app Google Play Privacy Policy (New) Terms of Use Your Privacy Choices Articles XML Updated Articles Updated Articles XML © 2025 EHM productions, inc. all rights reserved. Virginia Giuffre's Family Releases Words From Journal Found After Suicide Gal Gadot's Hottest Shots To Celebrate Her 40th Birthday! John Elway Driving Golf Cart When His Friend and Agent Had Tragic Fall Guess Who These Sweet Sisters Turned Into! Kanye West Producers Threaten to Take Down 'Donda 2' Over Nonpayment Selena Gomez Says She & Benny Blanco Won't Have a First Dance at Wedding Selena Gomez No First Dance For Me & Benny!!! At Upcoming Wedding Published April 30, 2025 10:24 AM PDT Play video content DITCHIN' THE DANCE Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware There won’t be a first dance for Selena Gomez and fiancé Benny Blanco -- and no, it’s not because they’re trying to be edgy, or worse, because the wedding’s off. Selena spilled the tea on the "Table Manners" podcast with Jessie and Lennie Ware, admitting that having all eyes on her would probably make her feel a bit embarrassed -- hence, no first dance. Launch Gallery Selena and Benny Together Launch Gallery Benny chimed in too, cutting to the chase -- it’s simply because Selena’s a bit shy. However, Selena will be putting her timid-girl vibes on pause for one moment -- she’s planning a special dance with her grandpa on her mom’s side, since he missed out on walking her mom down the aisle thanks to a quickie Vegas wedding. Play video content TMZ TIMELINE: SELENA GOMEZ & BENNY BLANCO Looks like wedding planning’s in full swing ... Selena revealed they’ll be keeping things festive with a classic from Benny’s Jewish roots -- the Hora, AKA the "chair dance." Selena and Benny kicked things off in July 2023, and since then, they've been inseparable, announcing their engagement in December 2024. Share on Facebook related articles Justin Bieber Timeline, Teen Dream to Trouble Machine Selena Gomez Craves Sex With Benny Blanco On New Album Selena Gomez Lets Benny Blanco Do Her Makeup on Video, With Hilarious Results Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco Buy $35M Beverly Hills Mansion Selena Gomez Benny Blanco Relationships Tying The Knot About TMZ.com Privacy Policy (New) Terms of Use Your Privacy Choices Articles XML Updated Articles Updated Articles XML contact tmz Send a Hot Tip Advertising Inquiries Media Inquiries Yes! Send me email updates and offers from TMZ and its Affiliates. By subscribing, I agree to the Privacy Policy and Terms of Use Subscribe to TMZ newsletter Download the TMZ App on the Apple App Store Download the TMZ App on the Google Play Store © 2025 EHM productions, inc. all rights reserved.