He gave me the tools to withstand a sexist world. He would say: Hillary looks ugly in her pantsuits. And her voice! Women don’t belong on the golf course. This was my exposure therapy. He gave it generously. He didn’t give me a response when I was little and watching a baseball game on TV with him. Why, I wanted to know, did the umpire call a strike when the batter didn’t swing his bat? He couldn't be bothered to explain. Subscribe to The Times to read as many articles as you like.