Ashlyn Harris won’t tolerate any fouls launched at Ali Krieger. Over a year after the former couple, who share kids Sloane, 4, and Ocean, ended their marriage in September 2023, the retired soccer goalkeeper revealed that despite their messy divorce, she’ll always have respect for her ex-wife. “It’s definitely a grieving process,” Harris said during an appearance on Rachel Bilson and Olivia Allen’s Broad Ideas podcast on March 3. “I will say this. I will not allow people to speak—in my home, in my presence, or around my children—ill about my ex-wife or our relationship.” The 39-year-old also explained that while being a mom is the “hardest thing she’s ever done,” her split with Ali—who she tied the knot with in 2019 after nine years together—was tougher on her mental health, especially since it came a year after she retired from Gotham FC in 2022.