Dear Annie: My friend “Lauren” and I have been close since high school. We used to talk all the time and make plans regularly, but now I’m always the one reaching out. If I don’t text or call first, I don’t hear from her at all. When we do hang out, things are great, but that’s only once every month or so. I’ve asked if something is wrong, and she insists everything is fine, she’s just “so busy.” I get that life gets hectic, but I also see her posting on social media, out with other friends, making time for things she wants to do. It hurts to feel like I’m putting in all the effort while she doesn’t seem to care. Should I say something again, or is it time to accept that our friendship is fading? -- Feeling Left Behind Dear Left Behind: Friendships ebb and flow, especially long ones. Her actions show that she still enjoys your company, but she also has other priorities competing for her time. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t care; it just means your relationship has shifted. Instead of chasing her, take a step back. See if she makes an effort when you stop always reaching out first. If she does, great. If not, you have your answer. You should focus your energy on relationships that feel balanced. View prior ‘Dear Annie’ columns “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is out now! Annie Lane’s second anthology -- featuring favorite columns on marriage, infidelity, communication and reconciliation -- is available as a paperback and e-book. Visit Creators Publishing for more information. Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie@creators.com. COPYRIGHT 2025 CREATORS.COM